FRIENDSHIP

For a story, there's a beginning and an end
For a road, there's a beginning and an end
For a journey, there's a beginning and an end
People say all good things come to an end
BUT
For FRIENDSHIP, there's a beginning but NO END !!!


There are lots of things that can make you happy
In this beautiful creation of GOD - Earth;
A bright flower in the garden
A baby's smile when you are sad
A morning dew drop on your face
A bird's chirp in middle of the woods
But it's happier to know that you have
A FRIEND WHOM YOU CAN
TRUST FOR YOUR LIFE !!

WHY WOULDN'T SHE JUST LEAVE

WHY WOULDN’T SHE JUST LEAVE

She once met him in her dreams……………..
Then she met HIM in school, HIM who? Her dream boy in front of her eyes…
What did he do?
Gave her whatever she dreamt her dream boy should give
Gave her surprises for a week of her Birthday
Gave her gifts for Valentine’s Day
Gave her a kiss everyday when he left to work
Gave her a big hug when he returned from work
Gave her all the love and care she wanted on this earth
Gave her all what she asked for…..
She couldn’t think of any guy better than him whom she could marry!!!

Even after marriage………………..
He didn’t stop giving……. She initially liked it though!
Gave her all the work in the house
Gave her the trouble of waking before he wakes up to make tea
Gave her the duties to pay phone bills, gas bills, electricity bills
Gave her babies….. and again more responsibilities on her head

Do you think it looks good till now ….The problem started when marriage happened….
Arguments…..“Why did you change after marriage?”
“Why don’t you take up responsibilities?”
“Why don’t you love me like before?”
And the guy “Why don’t you do things for the house, you are a woman?”
“Why shouldn’t you take care of the kids, you are a woman?”
“Why do you complain doing groceries, you are a woman?”

Then why can’t she just leave! When the guy is not responsible at all!!!!!
Our girl is very soft by nature…Lives in dreams…Did not see reality in her dreams…

And now, she couldn’t just leave even though
He gave her a slap a day
He gave her at least one abuse a day
He gave her the worst respect
He gave her all the hard time on earth
Which she did not even dream of……..

Why should she bear all the pain, because she is a WOMAN….?
She couldn’t leave because
She did not want her parents to know that she was not happy
She did not want her friends to know that her selection was bad
She did not want her kids to know that their parents were fighting
She did not want her kids to be brought up without a father
She did not want to face the world because she thought it was her mistake
Will somebody explain to her that it is good to come out of this and she can find a better way to live in this world and can teach the guy the best lesson out of this!

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO…………………. BUT WHY???????????????????????

Because our “Great Woman” doesn’t want to share her feelings with anybody

Come-on WOMEN, speak up! There are people to help you and support you!

FEAR NOBODY! DREAM, DREAM, BUT LIFE IS NOT A DREAM!

“YOUR LIFE IS IN YOUR HANDS, IF YOU DON’T TAKE CARE OF IT, WHO WILL?”





-SHETHRA M. SANTHANAM

Dedicated to a husband(Rick Grant) from his wife(Donna)

There's no other
who knows me like you do
I share all my hopes and dreams
with you and I always will
You mean so much to me

There's no other
who makes me feel so complete
You are such a part of me, and
I'm so proud to be a part of you
We were meant to be together

There's no other
who can make me smile
the way you do
You'r my tower and my strength
i'm so thankful for you

I LOVE YOU TODAY AND ALWAYS!

My Favourite Quotes

Friendship is not about whom you have known for the longest, who came first or who cares the best. It's about
who came and never left ! - (Orkut)

Make new friends, keep the old

These are silver, but those are gold ! - (Anitha Ranganathan, class 8)

Heart to heart too hard to part

My love to you shall never depart

Remember me when you are far apart

Keep a corner for me in your loving heart! - (From Mom's poem collection)

True friends are diamonds, precious and rare,

False friends are like autumn leaves scattered everywhere! - (Anitha Ranganathan, class 8)

When you come right down to it, the secret of having it all is believing that you do ! - (From someone's check )

A Good Friend ? ? ?

Flowers BLOOM but wither away
Leaves are GREEN BUT dry away
Fruits are RIPE but rot away
Steel SHINES but rusts away

A GOOD FRIEND in your life?
Makes your life BLOOM with joy,
keeps it GREENER each day,
you feel RIPENED with him/her,
and you SHINE like a star!!!

Friendship never EXPIRES,
A friend does not WITHER just like that,
days are not DRY when he/she is around,
your name/fame is not ROTTEN because of him/her,
and never will you feel the RUST with a GOOD FRIEND!

And I know all this because of a FRIEND like you!!!

- Shethra M. Santhanam

My Friend

In this world of wars, I found Peace
In this world of noise, I found Silence
In this world of enmity, I found Love
In this world of rush, I found Time
In this world of betrayal, I found Belief
In this world of selfishness, I found Help
In this world of hatred, I found Kindness
In this world of so many people, I found you MY FRIEND
And in you MY FRIEND, I found it All.

- Shethra M. Santhanam